I found this pungent comment at the blog of Henry Makow, a conspiracy researcher and author, best known as a men’s rights advocate or virulent misogynist, depending on your political position.
(Makow is also likely to be connected to intelligence, although I have no hard proof of it and what suggests it to me is too elusive for a blog post).
The comment will probably strike a deep chord with many men, harassed by the inequities of contemporary family life and family law:
I have exchanged God’s love for eros and koinonia.
It works. Another thing I had to look at is sex.
The woman I live with and I have not been intimate going on seven years. For me it is bliss. You have talked at length regarding the slaying of that beast and how it makes a man free to pursue his purest intentions. I have found that promise to be so. What happens when the sexual bond is broken is that sexual worship and the worship of women falls away.
A man is able to keep his eye on his spiritual life. So I can attest that everything you have said about that is true.
So I live with a woman. I have love for her but am not in love with her. She knows that I can leave at anytime. We are both financially set and do not need each other in that way.
Not having a sexual or romantic bond is an advantage for me and keeps feminism in check.
Therapists are calling this the brother-sister marriage in today’s world. That is ok. Feminists created it, we men, we real men, have learned how to solution it. It is a relatively new phenomenon and it took us a while to figure it out, but we are not of low intelligence, as feminists like to portray us in TV commercials.
My advice to Eric:
Don’t Mary Molly. Focus on your daughter.
Make and keep your own money.
Do not let anybody stand in the way of your musical bliss.
Women want two things:
Money and the center of attention. It is their nature. Give them neither.
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This is one of the most pathetic people I’ve seen write on the subject. If Ole Blue Balls is indeed “connected to intelligence”, dare I say it’s not emotional intelligence!
lrajiva@mindbodypolitic.com
Submitted on 2015/01/07 at 10:12 pm | In reply to J. Christoph Amberger.
Really? Although the advice is a bit over the top, it is pretty much needed in some parts of the world. Worship of female sexuality in the West has become a bit excessive I think.
As for Blue etc., I’m sure you’re a better judge than I am.
Christoph, you amaze me. What a stick-in-the-mud you are. What happened to the “maverick,” “outsider,” “edgy”, “controversial” persona you and your former cohorts used to cultivate with so much zeal? Don’t tell me it was all PR…
Also, the only reason I posted the piece was because it shows some emotional intelligence.
Lila
You really believe that a sap who choses not to get laid out of spite to his wife’s supposed gender-based proclivity to “enslave” him has anything of value to say? That’s ridiculous. What a moron!
I don’t know what you mean by multi-culti camp in this context. I have never considered my marriage anything but a loving partnership of equals. That’s the Germanic, pre-Christian tradition. Don’t give a crap what various “dead white males” thought, considering most of them had been cowed by the eunuch-cult of Catholic Christianity—which another DWM, good old Fritzchen Nietzsche, rightfully considered a decadence religion that (much like Islam) puts a higher value on a fictitious after life than on a biologically worth-while life in the here and now.
Of course, you and he can always chose the freedom of a- and anti-sexual/romantic eunuchery. It’s a free country (at least compared to those who base their mores on decadence religions and ideologies).
Then again, maybe it’s all a conspiracy of the Global Matriarchate.
As to “edgy”: For the life of me, I cannot even begin to consider a guy who voluntarily hasn’t gotten laid in 7 years and is *actually proud of it* OR his ball-less revolution cool or worth imitating.
Not sure where you obtained that impression of me, but I guess someone as good as you sniffing out conspiracy in a kaffeeklatsch of old ladies will see what you see.
So I take it your emotional intelligence is stellar? I have a hard time believing that.
Is it very politically incorrect to suggest that slavery to romanticized sexuality is civilizationally untenable?
It’s what most dead white males thought.
And this live brown female.
I’m surprised to find you in the multiculti camp. Hope you don’t lose your intellectual intelligence there.
Lila